You can push yourself to grow by, for example, reading all the books about self-development and spirituality. It might help you through some parts, but there is a lot of programming in these books. You are like a seed and everything you (have to) know is already inside you, waiting to be re-membered by you.

This sign will help you let go of the need to improve beyond love to the point you want to grow out of fear. Fear of missing out. This sign will strenghten your connection to your inner knowledge.